Sunday, January 17, 2010

Haiti: Today I'm asking for ...


... safety for our extended family in Haiti.

Rosemene Joseph, age 42, who gave life and love to two of my children. Who carried the weight as best she could as the family struggled desperately through illness and frightening hunger, ultimately choosing the heart-wrenching decision to allow someone else to parent them. There is no WIC in Haiti. There is no Medicaid. There is no government funded childcare. There are not enough choices to keep every family together. That must change.

My daughter's middle name is "Rose" so that she always has a piece of her first mother with her.




We cry out for strength for their first father, Luc Aldor, age 52. He has sacrificed for all seven of his children. He is a good father (we have been told this by those who know him well). In illness, he was left helpless. His circumstances years ago left him with the most devastating decision as a father. He is a man of faith. My son took "Luke" as his middle name when we finalized their adoptions, so he, too, could carry his father's name with him.




My kids' oldest sister, Lourdie, is now 21. She shares strabismus with my daughter, although she was able to have her eyes repaired upon entering the states. Lourdie wears a prosthetic leg due to an amputation from an infection a few years ago. She was not able to get adequate medical care to save her appendage. Our contact, in Haiti, Karen, was made known of Lourdie's need for a prosthetic, and her organization helped with this. That's how their connection came to be. It was through months and months of random web searches, and Karen posting a picture of Lourdie, with her name, that we were able to reestablish contact with them.




Sarah is 14. She was 13 when this picture was taken last year. I imagine she made sure to be wearing her favorite things, knowing they were taking pics to send back to her siblings.



David is now 8 years old. My kids remember him very well. They spent some time together in orphanages, when their family was at their most desperate points of struggle.



Jenisca is 6 years old. I can see her sister so much in her face.



Dhimel is 4 years old. Could you just eat this kid up??



The Aldor family lives near Bernard Mevs Hospital on Airport Road. From what I can gather, that is in the Mais Gate area of Delmas 33. It's one area where we are NOT finding a lot of information on the web. Those who do know the Aldor's are giving aid to, literally, one hundred people in their own area (actually in their yard - 100 people living in their yard!).

We wait and we pray.

6 comments:

ldw said...

Beautiful! Amazing! Heartwrenching...I am praying too!

Amy T. S. said...

Thanks, Christine. This is all just unbelievable. Up until 5 minutes ago I stuck my head in the sand about the devastation going on in Haiti. But I'm done with the ostrich act. I'm so sorry.

Hoping to give you some hugs and silliness later this week. ;o)

Ashley said...

Hi, Christine,

Heartwrenchingly beautiful photos, they really drive the point home....

My tiny province is doing what it can for Haiti, and there's a fairly neat aution going on on e-bay that I've featured on my blog,

rolladyke-rambles.blogspot.com

You would, of course, get a lot more Haiti-related traffic on your blog than I do on mine, so I wondered if you would like to feature the link just in case the quirky little painting catches one of your readers' fancy.

Praying right along with you

Ashley

Jennie said...

sending a link to this post to my sunday school class so they can pray too.

Little Wonder said...

Praying *your* extended family is as well as can be in Haiti. I can't imagine the heart-ache felt in your family right now.

lana said...

I love having this look in to your extended family. Thank you for sharing this information. I am continuing to pray for them and for your family here. Love YOU!