It's February. The month of loooooooove.
So, what better time than to put out a big, fat challenge to all of us in the whacka-whacka department?
It was a year ago that my husband and I had seven straight days of sex, beating the Ed Young Jr.'s and only being outdone by one other couple (who, I'm pretty sure, have sexual organs made of steel - is that a "missionary" thing?). I've been wondering why I haven't asked the rest of you to join in. It was such an interesting (sometimes itchy, sometimes awkward, sometimes just-get-er-dun and ALWAYS challenging) experience. I wasn't sure Michael would be up for it again (bu-dum-bum-CHING!), but he was all, "Why not?"
So, here is the challenge: in the month of February, have more sex than you are currently having. YOU decide. Do you want to try for one full week? Two nights in a row may be a big step for you. Heck, I've been in libido hell and kept the goods to myself for months on end. So, if you're in that predicament, you may want to plan for one actual sexual encounter this month. Because, seriously, planned no-frills sex is ALWAYS better than no sex at all.
The point is to get us connecting again, physically, with our spouses. In case you haven't been around long, I've run the whole gambit on whoopie (for encouragement, you can read everything I've written on the subject here).
I'll be checking each Monday to keep us all on track. The hubster and I will be doing another week-long venture, but have not yet set a start date.
So, make a goal. Write it down. And (for lack of a better term) ... DO IT!