Sunday, February 12, 2012
Inspired by Sexuary
Taken from the comments section on Monday, from Dennis, a friend of mine. That's he and his sweet wife, Jenny, above. Their love and spirit and passion for one another truly inspires me. Not to mention, they're dang fun:
"Ok, I have to chime in here. As a guy who is married to one of the sexiest women I know, I've come to figure out "sexy" is more about an attitude then it is about a dress size. I've met women of all shapes and sizes that are sexy as hell. And yet I can look at some of the 'runway models' and think, 'what the hell is that?' with no sex appeal because of their attitudes.
Todays blog reminded me of a Trace Adkins song "Hot Mama" that came out about 10 years ago. The first 2 verses were:
You're doin' all you can to get in them old jeans.
You want that body back, you had at seventeen.
Baby, don't get down; don't worry 'bout a thing.
'Cause the way you fill 'em out, hey, that's all right with me.
I don't want the girl you used to be.
An' if you ain't noticed, the kids are fast asleep,
An' you're one hot mama;
You turn me on, let's turn it up,
An' turn this room into a sauna.
One hot mama,
Oh, whaddya say, baby?
Well, I know sometimes you think that all you really are,
Is the woman with the kids an' the groceries in the car.
An' you worry about your hips an' you worry about your age.
Meanwhile I'm tryin' to catch the breath you take away.
Oh, an' believe me, you still do.
Baby, all I see, when I look at you, (refrain - You're one hot mama!)
I truly believe most me have this attitude when it comes to their partners. We WANT to be intimate with you because you're hot as hell to us! And we really wish you could see yourselves through our eyes and see just how hot you are!
So my 2 cents worth boils down to this:
Feel Sexy - Because as men we start drooling as soon as you put on that feel. We loose all sense of control and ability to think straight.
Act Sexy - There is not many things hotter than a woman acting like she already knows how hot she is. There are some cloths my wife puts on (not just negligees) that she acts totally different in, and she acts sooo freaking sexy in....I have hard times those days not acting like a wild man trying to seduce her.
It's not the weight - You might want to loose the 15 lbs because of health reasons, but don't ever think your weight has anything to do with sexy. They are 2 different animals all together.
God I LOVE Sexuary! Thanks Christine for topics like this. It's real, and I've spoken to many over the years that just don't believe how sexy they really are to the guy standing right next to them drooling over their hiney!
Jenny's follow-up comment:
"I just wanna say....I love my hubby Dennis! Even when I'm not acting attractive or sexy he does things like what he said above and makes my heart swell when I know HE IS ALL MINE ;) he makes me feel sexy. I can remember we were dateing when that song came out and he would roll the windows down, turn the radio up and sing it to me.....even louder if the boys were in the car!"
And one more comment from Jenny that came in today. I think this is the most important. In case you're looking at this couple and thinking, "This just comes easily for them. This is how they are. I'm not like that!" Yeah. Close that mouth and open those ears. Learn from their story. It's still evolving. It's beautiful because it's real:
"It was so hard to take this picture! But yesterday while at the Reinfair I realized just how "sexy" I felt. Even had someone I was with say she loves being around me because she thinks I am so sexy, that I am opened about it and have such a free spirit. I never knew that she saw it, while I am still up and down with my own feelings about myself. It helps when I have a world of support to help me when I am feeling down about myself. I am not sure why in the last 6 months my whole attitude about myself has changed but it has and it's breached all areas in my life. My depression is better, my allergies are better, and to be frank my sex life is better. When all those things are better I feel better about myself ... Life is so GRAND right now..."